when a man has a war of the heart, which is to say, a man falls into love with two women at the same time. neither woman should win his heart. instead he should seach for the third women. the one content to wait and watch as one woman wins and the other gets the man later, in the end the third girl always wins because she knew that if she really wanted the man with all her heart. and he really sought love from any woman. then he would find her eventually.